This episode is sponsored by Claritin, Hiya, Rocket Money & Lume. Claritin: Go to https://claritin.com for a discount so you can Live Claritin Clear. Hiya: Go to https://hiyahealth.com/UNPLANNED and receive 50% off your first order. Get your kids the full-body nourishment they need to grow into healthy adults. Rocket Money: Cancel your unwanted subscriptions by going to https://RocketMoney.com/unplanned. Lume: Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code UNPLANNED at https://LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepod BUY OUR MERCH!! https://unplannedpodcast.com @SamAndMonica discuss cultural differences between the U.S. and England in their relationship, Sam's loss of his mother to cancer, and their experience consulting a psychic. Sam's IG: https://www.instagram.com/isampatterson/ Monica's IG: https://www.instagram.com/monicagartner/ Listen to Matt's song "I like right now" here: https://song.link/i/1712029483 Follow Matt on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/13zOfSuwHaEmdNMnzMcSaC?si=AqJxwjqBRxeM3SmtsngXZA&nd=1 Follow The Unplanned Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/unplanned__podcast/ https://www.tiktok.com/@unplanned_podcast Listen to the pod on Spotify/ Apple Podcasts: https://open.spotify.com/show/1ToDA4ufQuWuEgMq07zN6t https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-unplanned-podcast/id1669604504 Follow Matt & Abby: Abby's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/abbyelizabethoward/ Matt's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/_matt_howard_/ TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@matt_and_abby Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/mattandabb YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@MattandAbbyHoward 00:00 - Episode 70 02:09 - Life as a Brit in the US 11:41 - What British men actually think of Americans 14:00 - What we get wrong about the British 20:06 - Nando's virginity 28:37 - Doing long distance for SIX YEARS 31:06 - Sam was a “player” 38:39 - Sexting before they met IRL 44:38 - Sam’s wedding ring accident 1:01:48 - Monica’s OnlyFans Prank 1:19:11 - How Sam coped with his mum's death 1:28:50 - Monica stopped taking birth control 1:36:32 - “Doing it” on a gondola #unplannedpodcast #mattandabby