Alicia Barr shares the story of her 4 year affair with a married man 30 years older than her, and the struggle to walk away from a relationship she couldn’t let go of. She opens up about ending the affair, healing through therapy, and how her experience inspired her book, More Than a Secret: How a Mistress Broke Free from Her Affair. Check Out Alicia: → Website | https://aliciabarr.com → Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/aliciabarrauthor → Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/alicia.barr.562232 → TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@aliciabarrauthor? → Substack | https://substack.com/@aliciabarrauthor Sponsored By: → ZocDoc | Taking care of your health just got easier – start here with Zocdoc: https://zocdoc.com/insane #sponsored → Quince | Find the fall pieces you’ll reach for most at Quince. Download the Quince app for app-exclusive offers, or go to https://quince.com.Get free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Now available in Canada and the UK, too. And when Quince asks where you heard about them, let them know it was We’re All Insane. → HERS | Ready to reach your goals? Visit https://forhers.com/insane to access personalized, affordable care for weight loss, hair, menopause, and more. On This Episode We Cover: → 00:00:00 - Introduction → 00:02:34 - Why Did Alicia Feel Rushed to Live the American Dream? → 00:03:20 - Why Did Her Marriage Begin to Fall Apart? → 00:05:40 - How Did Their Friendship Begin? → 00:10:10 - Why Did the Church Get Involved? → 00:17:12 - How Did They Reconnect? → 00:19:44 - How Did Their Friendship Grow Closer? → 00:24:26 - When Did the Affair Begin? → 00:28:58 - How Did Her Divorce Happen? → 00:30:22 - Why Did She Fall in Love With Him? → 00:32:50 - When Did Alicia Hit Rock Bottom? → 00:41:22 - Why Was It So Hard to Leave the Affair? → 00:50:56 - How Did Her Niece Change Her Perspective? → 00:54:30 - What Finally Made Her End the Affair? → 00:56:36 - How Did Therapy Help Her Move Forward? → 01:03:14 - How Did Their Final Separation Affect Her? → 01:05:16 - How Did Their Final Goodbye Go? → 01:12:40 - Why Did He Tell Her Never to Contact Him Again? → 01:14:12 - Why Did Alicia Decide to Tell the Truth? → 01:17:00 - Why Did She Decide to Write a Book? → 01:18:30 - How Could Her Story Help Other Women? → 01:36:16 - What Hope Does She Have for Others? Further Listening → I Cheated on My Pregnant Wife… With a Man | https://youtu.be/ZThppd6KGNE?si=9B5bWnN7L5205LtF More We Are All Insane: → OFFICIAL MERCH NOW AVAILABLE - code INSANE10 gets you 10% off for a limited time: https://shop.wereallinsane.com → Join We’re All Insane Mailing List for EXCLUSIVE Content + Discounts: https://mailchi.mp/6d0e5d7a3998/were-all-insane For early releases, uncensored videos and plenty of exclusive content please subscribe to the We Are All Insane subscription channel at https://wereallinsane.supportingcast.fm/. It's $5.99 a month and watchable on Apple and Android mobile apps, Roku TV, Apple TV and Amazon Fire.