Thank you to today’s sponsor - Paleovalley: 15% off https://bit.ly/WOIPaleovalley What up, homies! It's Lisa here, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we dive deep and come out stronger. Today, I'm thrilled to have on the show the amazing Logan Ury, the Director of Relationship Behavioral Science at Hinge. Guys, we all know dating can feel like walking through a minefield, with rejection lurking around every corner. But fear not, because Logan Ury is here to shed light on why finding love feels like mission impossible and what we can actually do about it! Trust me, you won’t want to miss a single piece of this crucial conversation. We dig deep into: - The concept of dating blind spots and how they might be sabotaging your love life. - Three dating tendencies that could be holding you back from finding a genuine connection. - Practical steps you can take to update your dating strategy for more meaningful matches. - How to assess whether someone’s the right fit for the long haul, or just for now. - The keys to fostering vulnerability and authenticity in your dating life. You’ll gain all the tools you need to say goodbye to disappointing dates, and hello to meaningful connections. So ladies — if you're exhausted from walking the dating tightrope, this episode provides the clarity and confidence to find love on your own terms. Remember, no more settling for less than you deserve. It’s time to be proactive in your journey, find that connection you’ve been dreaming of, and truly be the hero of your love life, starting now! THE POST-DATE EIGHT: 1. What side of me did they bring out? 2. How did my body feel during the date? Stiff, relaxed, or somewhere in between? 3. Do I feel more energized or de-energized than I did before the date? 4. Is there something about them that I'm curious about? 5. Did they make me laugh? 6. Did I feel heard? 7. Did I feel attractive in their presence? 8. Did I feel captivated, bored, or somewhere in between? CHAPTER MARKERS: Follow Logan Ury: Website: https://www.loganury.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loganury Take Logan’s Quiz: https://www.loganury.com/quiz Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!