Get my book Radical Confidence NOW https://www.radicalconfidence.com/UDX497 Get my FREE 4-part Confidence Course https://www.radicalconfidence.com/cdg501?r_done=1 Listen NOW to the WOI Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/women-of-impact/id1435217865 On Today's Episode: Choosing the right person to date can be a high-stress situation for most of us. The choice is even more difficult when you begin to think about all of your previous choices and wonder if you can even trust your judgment anymore. Have you ever wondered how is it that you seem to attract not one, not two, but every wrong person possible? Does the madness ever end? This episode is dedicated to a few basic strategies and ideas worth learning about and practicing so that you can stop attracting the wrong person to your life and start picking the right partner for you. Spirit, the relationship therapist, and Matthew Hussey are united in wisdom for a masterclass on not just how to date better, but also how to make better choices and get out of the wrong situations even faster. Check out these full episodes: Secrets of a Successful Relationship with Spirit: https://youtu.be/2dkk3D8tXDs What Guys Really Think with Matthew Hussey: https://youtu.be/pse1IbIc7vM SHOW NOTES: Are you compatible | Spirit reveals truth about aligning with your partner [0:25] Dating Rules | Tips for dating potential life partners [5:18] Solving Relationship Problems | The healthy way to solve relationship problems [11:44] Ask Hard Questions | Knowing the truth is better than wondering [19:25] QUOTES: “Compatibility is about how do we line up in the areas of our lives in such a way that if you never changed, and I never changed, we would still fit like a glove, [...] and have our needs met in this relationship for the rest of our lives.” Spirit [3:14] “The longer that we can hold out on the sex, the more objective we can be about who the person is.” Spirit [8:58] “The relationship is its own living, breathing entity, and it's up to the two of you to constantly work together in partnership to resolve the problems in your relationship.” [12:06] “Everything starts with us as the individual and then radiates outward, and if you don't understand that, that's because either you haven't learned to be connected to all the parts of yourself, or somewhere along the line, somebody told you that what you needed and wanted wasn't important enough for you to express an advocate for you getting what you want in order to be happy.” Spirit [17:22] “When someone is being intentional about dating, they are asking intentional questions about who you are and what you're all about.” Matthew Hussey [20:18] “Be kind in your tone, but ruthless in your actions.” Matthew Hussey [26:53] “The uncomfortable conversation lasts an hour, maybe five minutes, the knowledge, the answer you have for the rest of your relationship.” Matthew Hussey [30:35] Follow Spirit: https://www.instagram.com/talk2spirit/ Follow Matthew Hussey: https://www.howtogettheguy.com/