Falling in love can be easy. We’re taught how to fall in love, but no one teaches us how to stay there. In this powerful relationships conversation, Dr. Mark Hyman sits down with relationship repair expert Baya Voce to deconstruct the "Disney fantasy" of romance and reveal why the secret to a lasting, healthy partnership isn't the absence of conflict—it’s the mastery of repair. If you’ve ever felt hijacked by your emotions during an argument or wondered why "communication tools" fail you in the heat of the moment, this episode is for you. Baya explains that healthy relationships and dating feel less like a spa and more like a "relationship gym," where the goal is building the physiological capacity to handle tension. We explore how nervous system regulation and "window of tolerance" dictate our ability to stay connected, even when we’re triggered. You'll learn why 69% of relationship problems are actually unresolvable and how shifting from "perception" to "perspective" can act like a magic trick for resolving even the most intense disagreements. From the science of MDMA-assisted couples therapy to practical "micro-repair" exercises you can start today, this episode provides a roadmap for moving from power struggles to true interdependence. Stop waiting for a frictionless relationship and start building the skills to navigate the reality world. Learn how to turn every conflict into an opportunity for deeper healing and evolution with relationship advice. View Show Notes From This Episode⁠ https://drhyman.com/blogs/content/podcast-ep1125 ⁠Get Free Weekly Health Tips from Dr. Hyman⁠ ⁠https://drhyman.com/pages/picks?utm_campaign=shownotes&utm_medium=banner&utm_source=podcast⁠ ⁠Sign Up for Dr. Hyman’s Weekly Longevity Journal⁠ ⁠https://drhyman.com/pages/longevity?utm_campaign=shownotes&utm_medium=banner&utm_source=podcast⁠ ⁠Join the 10-Day Detox to Reset Your Health⁠ ⁠https://drhyman.com/pages/10-day-detox⁠ ⁠Join the Hyman Hive for Expert Support and Real Results⁠ ⁠https://drhyman.com/pages/hyman-hive⁠ This episode is brought to you by PerfectAmino, BON CHARGE, Timeline, BIOptimizers, Maui Nui and Made In Cookware. Go to ⁠https://bodyhealth.com⁠ and use code HYMAN20 to get 20% off your first order. Upgrade your routine. Head to ⁠https://boncharge.com/hyman⁠ and use code HYMAN for 15% off. Receive 20% off a subscription at ⁠https://timeline.com/drhyman⁠. Head to ⁠https://bioptimizers.com/hyman⁠ and use promo code HYMAN at checkout to save 15%. Learn more about the health benefits of venison and how to get yours, head over to ⁠https://mauinuivenison.com/hyman⁠. Head to ⁠https://madeincookware.com⁠ and use the code DRHYMAN for 10% off your order. #RelationshipRepair #DrMarkHyman #BayaVoce #NervousSystemRegulation #HealthyRelationships #CouplesTherapy #EmotionalIntelligence