It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by Sarah who is in a long term, long distance, *polyamorous* relationship. While she has agreed to all the terms, she doesn't feel prioritized or valued. Is this her anxious attachment style rearing its head or is it the relationship itself? And can she regain the power in this dynamic? Listen on for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY for 40% off your first order! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Sarah! 48:52 - Shandy Debrief Episodes mentioned in this call: - Attachment Styles with Eli Harwood: https://youtu.be/KpDONPSaebw?si=lxnf8ozl9UI_Gnef - Keeping the Spark with Emily Nagoski: https://youtu.be/8KmcqxkkoDg?si=sogziATDnhFqmpZg - Confessions of a Sex Therapist: https://youtu.be/bsrgNNHkDv8?si=5ITngE7C63vCMvnj If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion #relationshipadvice #couplegoals #relationships #datingadvice #dating #dearshandy #cheating #cheater #polyamory #openrelationship