Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Jacob, an autistic man in Nebraska who likes strip clubs. Jacob's social media name is cubbypotamus. For ad-free, uncensored videos and plenty of exclusive content please subscribe to the Soft White Underbelly subscription channel at https://softwhiteunderbelly.com. It's $10 a month and watchable on Apple and Android mobile apps, Roku TV, Apple TV and Amazon Fire. 0:00 Autistic Thinking 1:00 Pottery as a Bridge to Human Connection 2:46 Being Ignored and Social Rejection 6:42 Misinterpretation and Social Disconnect 10:09 "Emotional Nakedness" and Hate 15:05 Discovering Connection at a Strip Club 20:27 Socializing Through Flirting 26:16 The Power of Non-Verbal Connection 29:00 Wearing Color, Gaining Confidence, and Feeling Loved 31:04 Deep Appreciation for the Dancers 36:06 Understanding Love as a Gift, Not a Transaction 45:48 Message to the Women Who Showed Him Love 46:45 On Relationships, Jealousy, and Connection 48:00 Flirting 52:00 Diagnosing Autism Late and Discovering Self 54:45 Final Reflections: Pride, Advice, and Hope Here's how to purchase the Soft White Underbelly books and merch: https://softwhiteunderbelly.org. #swu #softwhiteunderbelly #documentary #marklaita #austism #nebraska #strippers #spectrum