Serena Kerrigan, author of Let's F*cking Date, joins Sabrina to talk about the dating mindset that keeps you single, why situationships never turn into relationships, and how to stop double texting, over-managing dates, and chasing men who aren't showing up. They get into her "2 drinks and ditch" rule, the vacation mentality that led to meeting her partner, and why no plan means no man. If you're tired of dating apps, anxious about finding your person, or struggling with rejection after a great first date, this episode is full of real dating advice for women on building self-confidence, taking up space, and choosing a partner who makes you feel safe. Pre-order Sabrina's book coming out October 2026, "Why Am I Like This?" https://amzn.to/4v1eHWj Get your free workbook and access to the companion course after pre-ordering 'Why Am I Like This?' by filling out the form at the bottom of the page ⁠http://sabrinazohar.com/book Get Let's F*cking Date: https://link.amazon/B0a87tV72 Take the new and improved dating quiz! https://sabrinazohar.com/quiz If you’re ready to slow down, trust your instincts, and break your old dating patterns, the Healthy Relationship Foundations Course walks you through it step-by-step https://foundation.sabrinazohar.com/ Don't miss a video! Subscribe NOW: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSKQduzS78E6-I9tx0jqjpw?sub_confirmation=1 ABOUT SABRINA ZOHAR: Sabrina Zohar is a dynamic entrepreneur, relationship coach, and host of the hit podcast The Sabrina Zohar Show. With over a million followers on both Instagram and TikTok, along with a thriving online community, Sabrina is known for her honest, relatable approach to modern dating, relationships, and self-growth. After launching her sustainable clothing brand SoftWear, Sabrina’s journey took a transformative turn when she began sharing her personal experiences with dating and emotional wellness online. Her real talk quickly resonated, earning her features in outlets like NBC, The LA Times, The Tamron Hall Show and Vogue. Through online courses, one-on-one coaching, and candid conversations, Sabrina empowers her audience to “do the work” and create lasting change in their relationships-with others and themselves. FOLLOW ME ON SOCIAL: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sabrina.zohar/ Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesabrinazoharshow/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sabrina.zohar? Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-sabrina-zohar-show/id1668235178 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2Dsp24A82JkYRXytiA2qRt Website:https://www.sabrinazohar.com/ ============================= Chapters 00:00 Biggest Dating Problem: Mindset 03:35 Anxious Dating and Double Texting 07:20 Talking to Yourself for Confidence 10:15 Marathon Dates and Dating Pacing 13:40 3P Theory: Potential, Practice, Plot 17:20 Feeling Safe With the Right Partner 21:00 Taking Up Space on a First Date 24:20 How to Handle Rejection in Dating 28:00 Accountability in Dating and Breakups 31:15 Situationships and Texting vs Dating Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialogue, music, and images that are property of SABRINA ZOHAR. You are authorized to share the video link and channel, and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided. © SABRINA ZOHAR 2026 Disclaimer: The Sabrina Zohar Show, formally known as Do The Work, is not affiliated with A.Z & associates LLC in any capacity. Dating Advice I Wish Someone Told Me in My 20s W/ Serena Kerrigan https://youtu.be/_rfAH7_wNAM