Thank you to today’s sponsor: Paleovalley: 30 for $36 at https://bit.ly/WOIPaleovalley You know those moments when your gut is screaming “RED FLAG” but you can’t prove it and everyone else is acting like it’s totally normal? This episode is your toolkit for decoding those vibes, spotting deception, and reclaiming your power… even in the stickiest, most manipulated situations. I'm sitting down with Andrew Bustamante, former CIA spy, for a deep dive into body language, lying, manipulation, and why our culture lets certain people (especially celebrities!) get away with so much. We break down infamous confrontations: Denise Richards & Aaron Phypers, Kevin Federline & Britney Spears, Cardi B, so you get the REAL story behind the headlines and learn how to protect yourself when someone is trying to play you. If you are DONE being gaslit, dismissed, or sidetracked by guilt, get your notebook ready! Here’s exactly what we dive into: - The blink-rate and body-language tricks that expose liars instantly - Emotional abuse vs. physical abuse: why gender bias warps our perception - Tactical questions you can use to get the truth (from your partner, boss, or anyone in your life) Chapter Titles Want to learn more from Andrew Bustamante? Find your Spy Superpower: https://yt.everydayspy.com/4asr05N Read Andrew’s CIA book ‘Shadow Cell’: https://geni.us/ShadowCellBook Follow Andrew on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@Andrew-Bustamante Explore Spy School: https://everydayspy.com/ Support Andrew’s sponsor Axolt Brain: https://axoltbrain.com/andy Listen to the podcast: https://youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Want to search through every episode, explore specific topics, or ask me questions directly? Check out my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section. That’s 100% a scammer.