Don't judge people by how smart, charming, or successful they are. Judge them by whether they can take criticism. In this clip, Robert Greene and Jay Shetty talk about how to spot a weak character before you let someone into your life, and why the people who pull you in fastest are usually the ones to walk away from. Robert explains why negative people aren't actually attacking you, what stress and power reveal about someone once the mask slips, and why we keep choosing the exact wrong people over and over again. Then it turns inward. Robert opens up about feeling like an impostor, why he refused to write a sequel to The 48 Laws of Power, and the one thing he's still trying to learn at this point in his life. Learn about why your thoughts aren't real, how social media copied the human brain, and what happens when you start questioning every belief you have. JAY'S DAILY WISDOM DELIVERED STRAIGHT TO YOUR INBOX Join 900,000+ readers discovering how small daily shifts create big life change with my free newsletter. Subscribe https://news.jayshetty.me/subscribe Chapters 0:00 — How to deal with negative people 1:22 — Why it was never about you 2:41 — Spotting a narcissist before you're involved 4:09 — Stop judging people on charm and intelligence 4:51 — The trait the monastery valued most 5:44 — Strong character vs. weak character 6:58 — What stress reveals about someone 7:29 — What power reveals about someone 9:08 — Robert admits his own weakness 10:24 — Why a thought is a phantom 11:53 — How social media copied the human brain 13:31 — "We don't really have a self" 14:30 — The writer who says we're all asleep 17:43 — Questioning every belief you hold 18:51 — How to question yourself without losing yourself 20:50 — Knowing at eight years old who he was 21:37 — What people get wrong about Robert 23:37 — "I feel like a bit of an impostor" 25:47 — When other people's image of you becomes yours 27:27 — Why he refused to write 48 Laws part two 29:13 — Why a smaller vocabulary means smaller thoughts 30:57 — What other languages can say that English can't 33:19 — Hearing music from the ancient world 35:16 — What walking outside felt like 1,000 years ago 41:52 — The final five Watch the FULL episode on Netflix & Spotify 🎙️ Netflix - https://dub.sh/QaUsKeD Spotify - https://dub.sh/axUXylv Full Episode With Robert Greene: https://youtu.be/nXs4UABX4Kc Episode Resources: https://powerseductionandwar.com/ https://www.instagram.com/robertgreeneofficial https://www.tiktok.com/@robertgreene https://www.youtube.com/@RobertGreeneOfficial https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B001IGV3IS/allbooks?ingress=0&visitId=0c102550-1615-4f3e-9c4d-e56f61511fb2&ref_=ap_rdr