Get my free confidence audio to overcome self-doubt and follow through on your goals: https://link.rtt.com/ymyr-confidence-261101-d When we are born, our driving need is to find connection and avoid rejection. What I see today is the opposite: we are all finding rejection and avoiding connection, and then we blame ourselves for feeling lonely. My guest this week says that is not an accident, and it is not your fault. Vishen Lakhiani created Mindvalley, wrote The Code of the Extraordinary Mind, and gave us the word “brules”, his name for the rules we never agreed to follow. In this conversation he is blunt about who profits when we compare ourselves, why he has banned social media in his own home, and why the single most profitable thing anyone can do is take human beings and separate them. We also talk about the career path that leads a whole generation into jobs with a fifty per cent depression rate, why he believes no one person should carry all of your love, and what he would delete from the world if he could. Connect with Vishen Lakhiani: Website: https://www.mindvalley.com Instagram: @vishen Read The Code of the Extraordinary Mind Connect with Marisa Peer: Website: https://www.marisapeer.com Buy Your Mind Your Rules: https://link.rtt.com/4yve09F Instagram: @marisapeertherapy Learn more about Rapid Transformational Therapy and Training: https://link.rtt.com/4AqoasP #VishenLakhiani #MarisaPeer #YourMindYourRules #Mindvalley #Loneliness #Brules #LimitingBeliefs #SocialMedia #SelfLove #Relationships #Connection #PersonalDevelopment #RTT