👇 SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL - so this show can reach more people 👇 https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIprGZAdzn3ZqgLmDuibYcw?sub_confirmation=1 Click the Link Below to Subscribe to my email list to MAXOUT your life (all value, no fluff) https://konect.to/edmylett For a limited time, check out Rho’s Liposomal NAD+ at https://www.rhonutrition.com/discount/mylett and use code MYLETT for 20% off sitewide. Get your choice of a healthy free protein staple like chicken breast for a year or ground beef in every box for LIFE PLUS $20 off when you go to https://ButcherBox.com/mylett What if your thoughts aren’t the problem… but the state your body is in is controlling everything? In this conversation, I sat down with Dr. Stephen Porges, and I’m telling you right now, this one stretched me. Not just intellectually, but personally. Because what Dr. Porges reveals is something most of us have never been taught. Your life is not just driven by mindset or motivation. It is driven by your physiological state. And if you don’t understand that, you could spend your entire life trying to “think” your way out of something your body is actually controlling. We get into his groundbreaking work on the nervous system, the vagus nerve, and what he calls neuroception. That is your body’s ability to detect safety or danger without you even being aware of it. And here is the truth that hit me hard. If your body does not feel safe, it will not give you permission to feel joy, connection, or even perform at your best. That explains why so many high achievers still feel anxious, disconnected, or stuck even when everything on the outside looks successful. Dr. Porges breaks down trauma in a way I have never heard before. It is not just something that happened to you. It is something your nervous system holds onto because it is trying to protect you. And here is the key. The path forward is not just mindset work. It is learning how to work with your body. Becoming aware of it. Honoring it. And learning how to regulate it so you can actually change your experience of life. We also talked about leadership, parenting, and relationships. And this was a big realization for me. People perform better when they feel safe. Not when they feel pressure or fear. If you are leading a team, raising a family, or even working on yourself, your ability to create safety might be the most important skill you can develop. Because when people feel safe, they open up, they grow, and they become the best version of themselves. This episode is not surface level. It is a deep dive into understanding you. But if you stay with it, I promise you this. You will never look at your emotions, your stress, or your behavior the same way again. Key Takeaways: - Your physiological state is the foundation of your thoughts, emotions, and behavior - If your body does not feel safe, it will block connection, joy, and peak performance - Trauma is not just an event, it is a pattern your nervous system holds onto - You cannot think your way out of a state your body is creating - True growth comes from learning to regulate and understand your body, not fight it - The best leaders and parents create safety, not pressure 0:00 Introduction 5:13 What Is Driving Our Behavior? The Role of Physiological State 9:00 Sympathetic State, Defense, and Play Childhood Conditioning 13:13 Trauma: What It Really Is and How It Works 14:29 Neuroception: How Your Nervous System Reads Safety 21:10 HRV, the Vagus Nerve, and What Your Body Is Actually Measuring 24:09 The Achiever's Trap: Stress Addiction and Recovery 25:43 Homeostatic Rhythms and the Secret to True Recovery 27:19 Sympathetic vs Parasympathetic State Long Term Health 29:31 How To Observe What State a Person Is In 32:32 What Dr. Porges is working on to help maintain Homeostasis 37:26 Safety, Permission to Feel, and Human Connection 39:01 Vagus Nerve Stimulators and Sonic Augmentation Technology 40:31 Signs You're Living in Survival Mode 44:50 Safety as a Leadership and Parenting Tool 48:47 How to Repair Unsafe Moments and Parent Through Physiology 55:08 Daily Practices to Build Body Awareness and Create Change 57:30 Closing Thoughts Thank you for watching this video—Please Share it and get the word out! 👇 SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL👇 https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIprGZAdzn3ZqgLmDuibYcw?sub_confirmation=1 ▶︎ Visit My WEBSITE | https://www.EdMylett.com #EdMylett #Motivation