This episode is sponsored by Hiya, BetterHelp & Lume. Hiya: Go to https://hiyahealth.com/UNPLANNED and receive 50% off your first order. Get your kids the full-body nourishment they need to grow into healthy adults. BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/unplannedpodcast and get on your way to being your best self. Lume: Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get $5 off off your Starter Pack (that’s over 40% off) with promo code UNPLANNED at https://LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepod BUY OUR MERCH!! https://unplannedpodcast.com @CarloandSarah join us to discuss their unique marriage between an American and an Italian. They share the language barriers they've encountered in their relationship and the humorous awkwardness of living with their parents after getting married. Join us for a candid and entertaining conversation! Check out their IG: https://www.instagram.com/carloandsarah/ Listen to Matt's new song "best friends" here: https://song.link/i/1717255366 Follow Matt on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/13zOfSuwHaEmdNMnzMcSaC?si=AqJxwjqBRxeM3SmtsngXZA&nd=1 Follow The Unplanned Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/unplanned__podcast/ https://www.tiktok.com/@unplanned_podcast Listen to the pod on Spotify/ Apple Podcasts: https://open.spotify.com/show/1ToDA4ufQuWuEgMq07zN6t https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-unplanned-podcast/id1669604504 Follow Matt & Abby: Abby's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/abbyelizabethoward/ Matt's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/_matt_howard_/ TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@matt_and_abby Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/mattandabb YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@MattandAbbyHoward Chapters: 00:00 - Episode 59 10:02 - Accidentally friend-zoning my Italian boyfriends 12:31 - Women in Italy don’t take their husband’s last name 19:18 - The biggest cultural difference between Italy & the US 23:03 - Real Italians don’t move their wrist 34:46 - Italians put hot dogs and fries on pizza 40:09 - Google translating my husband in an argument 43:59 - I didn’t wait until marriage 53:12 - Why marriage is so hard 1:08:06 - Why so many creators are quitting 1:11:05 - Losing my hair from birth control 1:19:16 - Raising kids to be bilingual 1:26:39 - My dad heard us making love #unplannedpodcast #mattandabby