Society says one thing. Feminism says another. The red pill says another. The church says another. So who's right? Drew Birch was a drug addict, a porn addict, and a gambling addict. He hit rock bottom in Cape Town — cocaine, broken celibacy, a botched career, and a moment where he tore the shirt off his back screaming at God asking if he could still be used. Now he travels to schools across South Africa telling young men the one thing nobody will tell them: you are supposed to be dangerous, disciplined, and built for war — not soft, passive, and addicted to your phone. This episode goes everywhere. Masculinity. Porn. Abortion. AI and digital control. The weakness of the modern church. Gun ownership. Feminism. And what it actually takes to become the man you were created to be. Guest: Drew Birch — Speaker, Coach & Founder of AddVantage Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drew_birch Website: https://addvantage.today/coaching Host: Boikarabelo Tshabalala Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ariesentertainment.podcast Co-Host: WD Cronje instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wdcronje Subscribe for more unfiltered conversations about faith, culture, and the hard questions. #christianpodcast #drewbirch #southafrica #masculinity #faith #church #podcast #manhood