A fourth Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of James Sexton, a divorce attorney in New York City. His books, How To Stay In Love:Practical Advice From An Unexpected Source and If You’re In My Office It’s Already Too Late:A Divorce Lawyer’s Guide To Staying Together are available on Amazon. Subscribe through my link https://ground.news/swu or download the mobile app and enter promo code SWU to save 40% off their Vantage plan. Here's a link to James Sexton's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nycdivorcelawyer?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ== 0:00 – The Reality Of Marriage 3:02 – Why Passion & Novelty Fade 7:27 – Ground News Ad 8:03 – Love, Economy, & Gender Roles 12:00 – Modern Marriage & Capitalism 18:13 – Dating & Shifting Dynamics 23:11 – Romanticism, Hope, & Disillusionment 34:23 – Class, Wealth, & Social Divide 43:03 – The Myth Of The Perfect Relationship 53:03 – Sex Work & Modern Love 1:01:02 – Honesty, Validation, & Desire 1:12:00 – Legacy, Work, & Purpose 1:18:49 – Ego & Gratitude 1:25:22 – Closing Reflections For ad-free, uncensored videos and plenty of exclusive content please subscribe to the Soft White Underbelly subscription channel at https://softwhiteunderbelly.com. It's $10 a month and watchable on Apple and Android mobile apps, Roku TV, Apple TV and Amazon Fire. Here's how to purchase the Soft White Underbelly books and merch: https://softwhiteunderbelly.org #swu #softwhiteunderbelly #documentary #marklaita #divorceattorney #nyc #attorney #lawyer #storyteller #followups