Can we actually find freedom in a world of endless choice, or is true liberation found in the people we refuse to leave? John hosts Elizabeth Oldfield and her husband Chris for the first in a three-part Lectern Dialogues series on communal living as a spiritual practice, especially within a Christian orientation, and its connection to John’s “philosophical Silk Road” work. Elizabeth, who writes and speaks on spirituality and relational life, and Chris, a philosopher at the Faraday Institute, describe their intentional shared household in a small London home with other adults, marked by legal commitment and a “rule of life” of collective prayer, hospitality, play, and administration. They contrast this with casual cohabitation by emphasizing commitment, rhythms, and formation through proximity, conflict, and repair. The discussion links fellowship, attachment, and “renewing the senses” to critiques of individualism, while noting risks of self-deception and toxic religion and the need for discernment. Christopher and Elizabeth Oldfield are writers, thinkers, and practitioners of intentional Christian community living in London. Together with their children and three other adults, they share a home shaped by a common “rule of life” — a rhythm of prayer, hospitality, study, and shared formation rooted in the historic Christian tradition. Christopher is a philosopher affiliated with the Faraday Institute for Science and Religion in Cambridge. His work explores the love of wisdom, the renewal of metaphysics, and the recovery of pre-modern insights about personhood, participation, and the sacred. He is particularly interested in how modernity reshaped concepts like “religion” and how they might be reclaimed. Elizabeth writes and speaks on spirituality, community, and relational living, exploring how modern individualism has fragmented our capacity for intimacy and how shared practices can restore deeper forms of connection — with one another and with God. Her work bridges theology, culture, and everyday life with warmth and intellectual depth. Christopher’s Web - https://www.chrisoldfieldphilosophy.com/ Elizabeth’s Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/elizabeth-oldfield-5a5b6216/?originalSubdomain=uk The Seventh Letter – Plato - http://classics.mit.edu/Plato/seventh_letter.html A Hidden Life - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt5827916/ The Thin Red Line - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0120863/ Explore courses and teachings from The Lectern https://lectern.johnvervaeke.com/ Support the Lectern and join a growing community of wisdom seekers https://www.patreon.com/johnvervaeke John Vervaeke: https://johnvervaeke.com/ https://twitter.com/vervaeke_john https://www.youtube.com/@johnvervaeke https://www.patreon.com/johnvervaeke