👇 SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL - so this show can reach more people 👇 https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIprGZAdzn3ZqgLmDuibYcw?sub_confirmation=1 Click the Link Below to Subscribe to my email list to MAXOUT your life (all value, no fluff) https://konect.to/edmylett What if the secret to getting people to like you, trust you, and say YES has almost nothing to do with what you say and EVERYTHING to do with how you make them feel? In this powerful mashup episode, I'm bringing together some of the greatest minds in communication, persuasion, and human connection to reveal one of the most important skills you can ever develop: the ability to make people feel truly seen, heard, and understood. I'm joined by Charles Duhigg, Zoe Chance, Eric Thomas, Lewis Howes, Chris Voss, and Dean Graziosi to break down what separates people who struggle to connect from those who can walk into any room and instantly build trust and influence. Whether you're trying to grow a business, close a deal, strengthen your marriage, or become a better leader, these conversations will completely change how you interact with the people around you. Charles Duhigg shares an incredible story about a struggling CIA agent who became one of the agency's greatest recruiters, not by becoming a better persuader, but by learning to connect emotionally. He also reveals a powerful three-step communication technique called "looping for understanding" that can transform even your most difficult conversations. Zoe Chance breaks down the science of charisma and why people make decisions emotionally first and justify them logically second. She reveals that the two most important ingredients of charisma are connection and confidence, and that you don't have to be the loudest or most impressive person in the room to become the most influential. Eric Thomas brings a perspective that every leader needs to hear: you cannot truly influence people you haven't taken the time to understand. He explains why the greatest communicators stop focusing on what THEY want to say and start discovering what other people actually need. In my conversation with Lewis Howes, I share the three principles that have helped me build extraordinary success: identifying your greatest gifts, genuinely caring about people, and becoming obsessed with mastering your craft. I also open up about how growing up with an alcoholic father taught me to read people's emotions and how some of your greatest strengths can actually come from your deepest pain. Former FBI hostage negotiator Chris Voss reveals why listening is one of the most powerful negotiation tools in the world. He shares a remarkably simple technique called "mirroring" that can get people to open up by repeating just a few words they've said. I even share how using one of Chris's techniques completely changed a heated negotiation in my own life. And Dean Graziosi takes these principles into one of the most important areas of our lives: relationships. He opens up about the mistakes he made in his first marriage, why keeping score destroys intimacy, and how learning to experience love through GIVING rather than receiving transformed his marriage, his happiness, and even his business success. Key Takeaways - The secret to instant connection: Why making people feel heard and understood is more powerful than having the perfect thing to say. - Charles Duhigg's three-step communication technique: How "looping for understanding" creates trust and deeper conversations. - The science of charisma with Zoe Chance: Why connection and confidence matter more than being outgoing or naturally charming. - Eric Thomas on authentic influence: Why understanding what people need is the foundation of powerful communication. - My three principles for building success: Discover your greatest gifts, genuinely care about people, and become obsessed with excellence. - Chris Voss's FBI negotiation technique: How mirroring someone's last few words can unlock conversations and defuse conflict. - Why emotions drive decisions: How people connect emotionally before they respond to facts and logic. - Dean Graziosi's relationship breakthrough: Why keeping score destroys connection and giving love can transform your relationships. - The power of nonverbal communication: How eye contact, body language, facial expressions, and matching someone's energy build instant rapport. - How to become unforgettable: Why acknowledgment, thoughtful questions, and following up after conversations make people feel truly valued. I want you to walk away from this episode with a completely different understanding of influence. The greatest communicators aren't the people who make everyone notice THEM. They're the people who make everyone else feel IMPORTANT. And when you master that skill, you won't just become more persuasive. Thank you for watching this video—Please Share it and get the word out! ▶︎ Visit My WEBSITE | https://www.EdMylett.com #EdMylett #Motivation