The more you try to make your kids happy, the more you set them up for anxiety later. In this clip, Dr. Becky Kennedy and Jay Shetty talk about how parenting swung from ignoring kids' feelings to letting those feelings take the wheel, and why neither one raises a strong adult. Becky explains why a tantrum can mean you did your job, what a real boundary is (and why "don't press the elevator buttons" isn't one), and the birthday party meltdown one mom called her biggest parenting win. Learn about the three short lines that help a kid through a hard feeling, why yelling isn't the part that does the damage, and why being bored at your sibling's soccer game is good for you. JAY'S DAILY WISDOM DELIVERED STRAIGHT TO YOUR INBOX Join 900,000+ readers discovering how small daily shifts create big life change with my free newsletter. Subscribe https://news.jayshetty.me/subscribe Watch the FULL episode on Netflix & Spotify 🎙️ Netflix - https://dub.sh/QaUsKeD Spotify - https://dub.sh/axUXylv Full Episode With Dr. Becky Kennedy: https://youtu.be/o9xFySZ1tx8 Episode Resources: https://www.goodinside.com/ https://www.instagram.com/drbeckyatgoodinside/ https://www.facebook.com/drbeckyatgoodinside https://www.youtube.com/@goodinside https://www.linkedin.com/company/goodinside/ https://x.com/goodinside