Ty Tashiro is a psychologist, author, and relationship expert. Searching for love can feel overwhelming, especially when you're trying to find the right person. So what traits should we actually seek out, or avoid, and how can we give ourselves the best chance of finding our person? Expect to learn why happily ever after is so hard to find, why people have difficulty envisioning their romantic future, why we only get 3 wishes for our partner, the biggest mistakes people make when choosing a long-term partner, why some people are drawn to relationships that are really tough, if it is possible to optimise your chance of finding the right partner by increasing your odds of timing and randomness and much more… - 00:00 Is It Hard To Find A Happily Ever After? 03:09 Are We Designed To Be Monogamous? 08:57 Why Do We Find Difficulty In Visioning A Romantic Future? 16:24 Differentiating Passionate Love And Companionate Love 24:19 How To Know If You're In Love 33:03 What To Look For In A Partner 43:23 Traits We Should Avoid For A Relationship 57:06 Green And Red Flags To Be Aware Of 1:08:13 Does Compatibility In Personality Matter? 1:14:35 Reasons Why People Are Drawn To Challenging Relationships 1:32:48 Is There Such A Thing As Optimising Serendipity In Love? 1:48:20 Where To Find Ty - Get access to every episode 10 hours before YouTube by subscribing for free on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - https://apple.co/2MNqIgw Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - https://chriswillx.com/books/ Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic here - https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch in the comments below or head to... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/