This episode is sponsored by Rocket Money, BetterHelp & Nutrafol. RocketMoney: Cancel your unwanted subscriptions by going to https://RocketMoney.com/unplanned. BetterHelp: Visit https://BetterHelp.com/unplannedpodcast today to get 10% off your first month. Nutrafol: Visit https://nutrafol.com and enter promo code UNPLANNED for $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping! Matt and Abby open up about their decision to sleep in separate beds (again) and what it means for their relationship. They also dive into feelings of loneliness, the challenges of making friends as adults, and how their social lives have changed over time. MATT'S NEW PODCAST:@_matt_howard_ Follow The Unplanned Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/unplanned__podcast/ https://www.tiktok.com/@unplanned_podcast Listen to the pod on Spotify/ Apple Podcasts: https://open.spotify.com/show/1ToDA4ufQuWuEgMq07zN6t https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-unplanned-podcast/id1669604504 Follow Matt & Abby: Abby's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/abbyelizabethoward/ Matt's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/_matt_howard_/ TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@matt_and_abby Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/mattandabb YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@MattandAbbyHoward Chapters: 00:00 - Matt & Abby 05:52 - How my wife feels about sleep divorce 10:16 - Noticing the first signs of aging 17:29 - We found our forever house 21:39 - Hosting a Valentine's Day party for 2 year olds 31:36 - The problem with modesty in America 35:09 - Asking my husband book lingo 42:01 - The struggle of creating adult friendships 49:18 - The kindest gesture from a friend 54:35 - We're starting a preschool 1:05:23 - When you always want to move #unplannedpodcast #mattandabby