Today we welcome Kenneth Play and Madison Sloane Holland. Kenneth Play is an international sex expert and sex educator. Named “the world’s greatest sex hacker” by GQ, he has been featured by more than one hundred media outlets, including The New York Times, Men’s Health, Cosmopolitan, and Huffington Post. He is the creator of the Sex Hacker Pro Series, and author of Beyond Satisfied. His work has helped millions of men gain lasting confidence and competence. Madison Sloane Holland is a sex and empowerment coach, intimacy expert, and co-host of the top-rated sex podcast, Pleasure Positive Living. In this episode, I talked to Kenneth and Madison about how to increase sexual pleasure. Most people fail to realize their full sexual potential, partly because sex education in America is fear and shame driven. As a result, people turn to different forms of media, which can create unrealistic expectations and insecurities. Kenneth and Madison dispel the most common sex myths and talk about how we can empower both men and women to take charge of their own pleasure. Websites: kennethplay.com & www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide Instagram: @Kenneth_Play & @sugar.sloane_madison Kenneth’s E-book: https://bit.ly/ScottKennethPodcast Kenneth’s free training on VICE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zA3iQ1aR5IY Topics 04:22 What is sex hacking? 06:05 Shortcomings of American sex education 09:37 How block ourselves from pleasure 13:05 Transcendent sexuality and peak experiences 22:27 Pleasure for healing and intimacy 26:04 The orgasm gap 32:33 Erotic context matters 37:48 Male sexual empowerment 45:52 Myths about sexual pleasure 54:36 Going after our deepest desires Subscribe to The Psychology Podcast: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/psychology-podcast-dr.-scott/id942777522 https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/the-psychology-podcast-with-scott-barry-kaufman/the-psychology-podcast-with-dr-scott-barry-kaufman?refid=stpr See past episodes and join in the Discussion: https://scottbarrykaufman.com/podcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thepsychologypodcast?ref=br_tf Twitter: https://twitter.com/psychpodcast #ThePsychologyPodcast