Thank you to today’s sponsor: Beducated: 60% off the yearly pass with code Bilyeu https://beducate.me/bg2610-bilyeu Ever felt that deep ache after intimacy? When the man you love turns cold, distant, or numb, and you’re left questioning your worth? Homie, this episode goes straight to the raw nerve of why so many strong, caring women find themselves performing, chasing, or shrinking just to keep their relationships alive. Relationship coach Adam Lane Smith is BACK to get brutally honest about the “post-intimacy cascade,” avoidant attachment, why you doubt yourself after sex, and how to STOP making intimacy mistakes that cost you years of heartbreak. He breaks down the wiring in men’s brains, exactly how to tell if you’re dating a “good man” or a manipulator, and why the standards you set RIGHT NOW will either destroy or heal your confidence for life. This is your permission slip to ask for more… and a tactical guide to actually get it. Here’s exactly what we dive into: - What you’re doing WRONG before, during, and after intimacy and how to fix it NOW - The 7 secret “tests” men use to measure if you’re worth emotional investment - Concrete tools for clarity, boundaries, and reconnecting (even when you feel used or unseen) CHAPTER TITLES Follow Adam Lane Smith: Website: https://www.adamlanesmith.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AttachmentAdam Free attachment styles assessment, free newsletter, coaching, and live retreats available on his website! For 10% off Adam's courses and downloadables (add-ons) use code: LISA10 Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Want to search through every episode, explore specific topics, or ask me questions directly? Check out my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section. That’s 100% a scammer.