She believes men often derive their sense of validation from whether or not they can make their partner finish during sex.

“men often validate themselves through sex and whether they can make a woman finish or not i mean it validates the size of your dick how good you are in bed your physical attractiveness and if she doesn't come and sometimes you feel like am I good enough so that's that's definitely how I”

A man must be skilled to be sexually attractive.

“it can't be like timid I don't like the timid yeah that's the biggest turnoff for me because some women actually like that but then there's there's there's a thing we're like if it's like you have to be skilled right so if you go in and you're going on hardcore an”

She believes it is helpful to communicate clearly to a partner when she does not think she will reach orgasm so that they can manage expectations.

“what I started doing was like if I wasn't in the right mindset like do you guys ever know for a fact when you're just not in the right mindset finish yeah yeah you could have sex but like you're just not gonna finish this time and you already know it like maybe you want to have a little”

She claims that vaginal sex for women does not always lead to orgasm and that men should not expect it to happen every time.

“through sex vaginally girls don't come every time and there's a misconception that guys think like oh if I know how to make her [ __ ] once I can always do it doesn't always happen that way and put a lot of pressure on me”