A fear of other people's incompetence is a primary driver for a person's need to exert obsessive control over their surroundings.

“well there are many fears one of them is the fear of other people's unreliability or incompetence and sometimes this fear is well grounded”

The compulsion to control stems from an unexamined craving to acquire specific outcomes that will supposedly lead to happiness.

“You see you are not a control freak you are the human embodiment of craving you believe that if you can control everything you will eventually feel satisfied what you don't realize is that to control something or someone is to cling to an outcome and that clinging strangles The Joy from natural desi”