Parents should maintain awareness of their children's activities but prioritize preparing them to protect themselves rather than constant monitoring.

“parents should be tuned in and attentive and Vigilant about what their kids are doing where they are and who they're with but they also believe that the best way to protect your children is to prepare them to protect themselves”

The daughter feels that her mother's extreme monitoring and lack of privacy are excessive and negatively impact her social life.

“I'm 14 I'm not five when she's out of my sight the fear overcomes me I just lose control I get a really sick feeling my eyes will bulge out and I'll just get a this real Panic look on my face feel like I'm in a bubble like in a bubble that I cannot get out of”

The mother believes that keeping a child under constant surveillance is necessary to ensure their safety from external dangers.

“my plan to protect her is to be watching her 24/7”