The potential to easily end a relationship, such as through a clean breakup, is a key enabler for maintaining a happy and trusting long-term marriage.

“I think a happy marriage acquires the ability to divorce easily without the divorce industrial complex or whatever. Things currently going on and then there's so much money to be made from lawyers and divorce. But yeah, the ability to leave is what enables love, I think.”

Love is messy and requires effort, and it persists even through difficult times and temporary separations.

“Love's messy in that what I love about those stories is that's where the love was actually it was tested and it could have broke and been over yeah and it never was again the love won”

Love is not a transactional marketplace deal, but a state of being one must cultivate without expectation of profit.

“Being in love is very different from I love you, you love me. That's a marketplace transaction. I will love you, you love me. Once there is a transaction there is an expectation and expectation is for profit. Love is not profitable. It's a a very conscious loss making venture.”

Love is a chosen mission that requires surrender to its teachings and full presence.

“Love is my mission first and foremost. And when I declared that that was my mission, it was like God, the universe looked at me and said, "Oh, you you want this to be your mission." And that was when my training began.”

Heartbreak is a catalyst for personal growth and for creating a more authentic life.

“I found out that my then husband had been cheating on me. And it was the most horrible news I've ever gotten. But now looking back on it, I can say it was my life's greatest blessing because without that, I would have never left the marriage where honestly we were quite incompatible in many differen”