It is disrespectful for a family of origin to impose their religious agenda on a funeral for a deceased person who did not hold those beliefs.

“what about when the person dies and you know them to be a particular way and then their family of origin takes the Reigns on the funeral and it ends up being like a some sort of Rel religious agenda”

Funeral officiants should not grandstand or pretend to know the deceased if they did not know them personally.

“my number one out of all those things is the [ __ ] efficient that didn't know the person it's ridiculous”