Black holes and stars both warp spacetime, and when a black hole strips matter from a star, their respective gravitational wells change size according to the mass distribution.

“as you merge two dimples it's the black hole if it's a black hole in a star if the black hole begins to fillet the star as black holes are known to do hmm then its dimple will get deeper and this the black holes and will get deeper and the stars dimple will get shallower in response to this”