Taking responsibility for one's own actions in a relationship is liberating and often leads to positive changes on the other side.

“taking responsibility is liberating because the only thing you can really change is you there's a lot more freedom to do something about yourself than to go look for your partner on the other side”

Many challenges in relationships stem from projecting one's personal operating system onto a partner rather than creating a shared one.

“I find so many of our challenges exist because we project our operating system onto someone else rather than creating one with them”