Parents using intimidating, albeit harmless, threats can be an effective way to keep children well-behaved.

“I still remember some people call it trauma I I call it good parenting dad's like I'm going to kill you I'm going to punch you take to the bridge I'll do all Jesus don't be a little [ __ ] oh my God oh my Lord and look look who it turned into I I became the man that my dad wished for”

Children need to be disciplined so they understand that there are consequences to their actions.

“I don't know that's what I'm saying we need like you know Mal on the middle when they misbehaved so much they had to go to the military we should do that we should do that I would have I would have not I would have been very well behaved”