Maintaining emotional detachment from failures allows one to remain calm and approach difficult problems with rational probability-based thinking.

“I think that detachment from what's happening has allowed me in my most chaotic moments to remain calm it's allowed me to form a sort of calm within my chaos”

Failure should be viewed as a growth opportunity that equips an individual for the future rather than a reason for shame.

“the traumas and the difficult things will will equip you for the rest of your life I honestly know that there are people that would listen and go hold on a minute middle class white guy from a lovely village in Norfolk yeah you've had a few issues with mental health and bullying”