Fearne Cotton joins Jay Shetty to discuss the weight and importance of setting boundaries for yourself so you can learn to respect other people’s boundaries, why you need to change when your inner voice is telling you, and channeling negative energy into positive outcomes and changes in you and around you. Fearne is the author of the book, Speak Your Truth, and one of the best known and most popular broadcasters in the UK and is most recently known as the Founder of the wellbeing brand, Happy Place. Her podcast, Happy Place, has featured an array of guests such as Ellie Golding, Jada Pinkett Smith, and Russell Brand amongst others. What We Discuss with Fearne: 00:00 Intro 02:11 The inspiration behind the running selfie 04:41 Try and push yourself with vibrant colors 07:48 Life is everything, it’s loud and it’s quiet 10:54 Don’t ignore that consistent feeling of wanting to change yourself 14:11 Being yourself relieves the pressure to be brilliant at all time 17:03 When we’re curious, we’re always willing to learn 20:13 This social conditioning that we have to act a certain way 24:01 Speaking your truth is learning to say NO 27:52 Setting boundaries now will create healthy relationships 30:52 We need to be responsible for what we are putting out there 34:01 “I’m alright so I can be of service.” - Fearne Cotton 36:51 The pros and cons of having stop abruptly when you mind is at work 39:56 Think about how you can channel negativity into something positive 44:54 Be messy and create something that is authentically you 48:28 We have something to go with how we feel 52:44 Fearne on Fill in the Blanks 53:54 Fearne on Final Five 54:52 How good are we at accepting other people’s boundaries? Text me: 310-997-4177 -- Subscribe and be a part of the movement to make wisdom go viral: http://bit.ly/2n6hiQP-​​​ -- Join the conversation by commenting below. -- Enroll in Genius Coaching to improve your life, deepen your relationships and find happiness every day: https://pages.jayshetty.me/genius/​​​ -- Check Out My New Book, Think Like a Monk: https://thinklikeamonkbook.com/​​​ -- Jay Shetty is a storyteller, podcaster, and former monk who wants to make wisdom go viral. He loves taking his own life experiences, lessons from his time as a monk, and truths he has learned to make others’ lives better. -- Follow me on Social Media: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shettyjay... Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JayShettyIW/​​​ Twitter: https://twitter.com/jayshettyiw​​​ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayshetty​​​ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.co.uk/jayshetty... Sign up for my Viral Wisdom Newsletter: https://jayshetty.me/email