CHAPTER 4 OUT NOW: https://youtu.be/aasqsx2cGB8 Start eating better: Head to https://www.factormeals.com/solved202650off and use code solved202650off to get 50 percent off and free daily greens per box Confidence only helps you when it matches your actual ability, and Florence Foster Jenkins is the proof. In 1944 she sold out Carnegie Hall, with a two-month waiting list for tickets. She also could not sing a single note in tune, and she had no idea. In chapter three, Drew and I use her story to get at the real problem with confidence: calibration. Tip too far one way and you get the Dunning-Kruger effect, where the people who know the least are the surest of themselves, including a bank robber who covered his face in lemon juice because he thought it would make him invisible to cameras. Tip the other way and you get imposter syndrome, which turns out to show up most in high performers. We get into the McKinsey study that found future superstars are basically overachievers with crippling insecurities, the spotlight effect and the time I walked the Venice boardwalk in a chicken suit to prove nobody's watching, and why narcissism has almost nothing to do with confidence and everything to do with an inability to take feedback. The goal was never to feel as confident as possible. It's to see yourself clearly. Get your free PDF guide: https://solvedpodcast.com/confidence This is chapter 3 of our episode on Confidence. New chapters drop every few days. Watch the full episode now on Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/a2fhww9a ⇨ Sign up for my newsletter, Your Next Breakthrough. It will help make you a less awful person: https://go.markmanson.net/cdi1xzha ⇨ Get clarity on what actually matters. Try Purpose, Mark's AI mentor app that learns your patterns, challenges your blind spots, and helps you take action. Get started at https://go.markmanson.net/217i5ys5 FOLLOW MARK Mark's IG: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/markmanson⁠ Solved IG: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/solvedpodcast/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://x.com/markmanson⁠ LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/markmanson/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@IAmMarkManson #Confidence #narcissism #markmanson #Psychology