This week we have 4 time Bachelor, Nick Viall! Former Reality TV show heartthrob, turned "Love Guru," sits down to teach us all the ins and outs of love and relationships. If you have any questionable romantic relationships in your life, or generally feel lost when it comes to love, this is a podcast you need to hear! Let us know what you think in the comments, and enjoy the show! GO GET NICK'S BOOK - Don't Text Your Ex Happy Birthday... https://www.amazon.com/dp/1419755498 Follow Nick! https://www.instagram.com/nickviall/ Listen to "The Viall Files" https://viallfiles.com Keep up with us! Zach: https://www.instagram.com/zachjustice/ Indiana: https://www.instagram.com/indiana/ Jared: https://www.instagram.com/jarebearmusic/ DM us with your questions, ideas, and videos! https://www.instagram.com/dropoutspod/ Timestamps: 01:13 Nick’s belated birthday celebration. 02:51 Our friendship with Nick and how he met Jared. 03:25 Jared crushing on his crush from a distance. 03:54 Nick’s advice on making a move on your crush. 05:02 Nick’s perspective on why women have their guard up in public. 06:25 Having a gratitude mindset while approaching your crush in public. 09:25 How to pay compliments while approaching your crush. 12:12 Nick on how his podcast is soon about to reach the 500 th episode. 13:45 Zach comes up with an idea for a text crafting app for Nick. 14:19 Nick on his trials and tribulations with love and relationships. 17:57 Nick’s experience of being cheated on by his ex-fiancé and how it became a turning point in his life. 21:12 How to notice warning signs in a relationship. 22:29 Nick’s approach to avoiding past traumas from interfering with your relationships. 24:58 Nick’s analogy between cheating and credit card history. 27:05 Nick on why understanding your choices is more important than understanding other people. 31:26 Positive takeaways on relationships from Nick’s book. 33:09 Nick’s advice on healing after a breakup and being okay with your ex dating someone else. 35:43 Nick explains why ego is a superpower and how we can control it. 38:10 How to accept heartbreaks and turn them into positive stepping stones. 40:15 Indiana on her struggles getting over her ex and finally moving on after being cheated on. 45:42 Nick on not judging yourself and being brave enough to trust people after a rough heartbreak. 48:35 Nick answers Alyssa (our assistant)’s questions on relationships. 54:20 Nick explains the difference between non-negotiables and pet peeves in a relationship. 55:52 Nick on why you shouldn’t text your ex happy birthday. 01:04:24 Nick on the source of his relationship wisdom. 01:07:09 How Nick came to be on ABC’s The Bachelor. 01:10:24 Nick explains the balance between seeking love and letting it happen naturally. 01:13:11 Nick talks about his current relationship and the importance of communication. 01:18:11 How starring on The Bachelor became the starting point of Nick’s career. 01:22:55 Nick running into Harry Styles and how Harry became the dream guest for Nick’s podcast. 01:30:02 Nick answers some of our viewer’s relationship questions. 01:40:30 Nick’s perspective on the second date rule. 01:42:30 Nick’s advice for overcoming writer’s block and the story behind his book. 01:48:28 Nick and Indiana plan to collab on a live TikTok. 01:51:30 Nick’s advice on how to handle rejection as a guy.