Access Our Post-Traumatic Growth: A Hero's Journey Course Mentioned in This Episode, With a Trial to the Personal Development School: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=youtube&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=oUxZranRCG4&utm_content=yt-08-22-26&el=youtube What if some of the most painful experiences of your life could become catalysts for growth, deeper self-connection, and a new relationship with yourself? In this deeply personal episode, Thais Gibson sits down with Sophie to explore grief, fear of loss, self-abandonment, and post-traumatic growth. Sophie shares her experiences of profound loss and how those experiences shaped her relationships, boundaries, sense of responsibility for others, and journey toward healing. Together, Thais and Sophie unpack what can happen when you grow up feeling responsible for other people's emotions and well-being, why fear of loss can lead us to stay in relationships at the expense of ourselves, and how healing can involve redirecting the loyalty, care, and commitment we give others back toward ourselves. They also explore the power of surrender: learning to distinguish between what is within your control and what isn't, allowing yourself to feel instead of escape, and finding meaning and wisdom through life's most difficult seasons. Content Warning: This episode contains discussions of suicide, suicidal ideation, addiction, grief, and loss. Please take care while watching and prioritize your well-being. If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, call emergency services. If you are experiencing thoughts of suicide or need crisis support, in Canada, call or text 9-8-8. In the U.S., call or text 988. If you are elsewhere, please contact your local emergency services or suicide crisis line. This episode is dedicated to: Mika Ward (1974–2012) Caroline Birkenshaw (1996–2017) In This Episode, You’ll Learn: * How fear of loss can shape boundaries, self-esteem, and adult relationships * Why feeling responsible for saving or fixing others can become a form of self-abandonment * How grief and unresolved loss can contribute to patterns of escapism and emotional disconnection * Why self-compassion is different from staying stuck in pain * How to distinguish between what you can control and what you need to surrender * What it can look like to turn loyalty, dedication, and care inward * How boundaries can help interrupt cycles of overgiving and caretaking * Why “softening” and reconnecting with your emotions can become part of healing * How painful experiences can become teachers without minimizing the reality of the pain * Practical questions for identifying the lessons, growth, and letting go that can emerge from difficult experiences Timestamps: 00:00 – Growing Through Grief, Trauma & Uncertainty 01:23 – What Post-Traumatic Growth Can Look Like 05:30 – Where the Fear of Loss Began 19:22 – Losing a Best Friend & Experiencing Profound Grief 28:48 – Learning You Cannot Save the People You Love 32:25 – Finding Self-Compassion After Loss 38:37 – How Pain Can Build Resilience 43:04 – Turning Your Loyalty & Commitment Toward Yourself 52:10 – Finding Purpose Through Pain 54:00 – Surrendering What You Cannot Control 59:31 – Vulnerability, Boundaries & Breaking Old Cycles 01:04:50 – How Pain Can Become a Teacher 01:08:07 – Turning Pain Into Wisdom & Growth Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=youtube&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=youtube 📘 Become an IAT Relationship Coach https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/iat?utm_source=youtube&utm_campaign=iat&utm_medium=organic&el=youtube 📚 Read the New Attachment Theory Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/book/the-new-attachment-theory?utm_source=youtube&utm_campaign=the-new-attachment-theory&utm_medium=organic&el=youtube 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?utm_source=youtube&utm_campaign=podcast-page&utm_medium=organic&el=youtube 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/