Dr. Ramani is a psychologist, New York Times best-selling author of the book It’s Not You, and the world’s leading expert on narcissistic relationships. 42:32 Am I a narcissist? 46:05 Shame core of grandiosity 48:40 Effects of growing up with narcissistic parents 54:10 Can you get them to understand you? 58:31 Mind games they play in relationships 01:00:09 Red flags on a first date 01:03:18 How to respond to gaslighting 01:07:00 How to leave a narcissit