Thank you to today’s sponsors: LELO: 20% off with code LISA20 at https://lelo.to/LELOVDAYxLISA OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa You know those times when you FINALLY spot the red flags… but no one else sees it? Or when the guy seems sweet, emotionally available, maybe even “softer?” But somehow, you end up carrying all the guilt, the pity, and a never-ending emotional debt? This episode will change how you date, how you spot narcissists, and how you protect yourself from manipulation that hides underneath “good guy” masks. I’m sitting down with Dr. Ramani — New York Times Bestselling author and psychologist — to expose the truth about soft boys, resentful martyrs, communal narcissists, and every dangerous under-the-radar personality type women get trapped in. Here’s exactly what we dive into: - The “soft boy trap”: why emotionally open can still mean dangerous - Signs you’re in a relationship with a vulnerable narcissist (and why they’re so hard to spot) - The four patterns of the resentful martyr (and why their generosity never feels like love) - Why communal narcissists fool everyone… except the people closest to them - The ONE universal sign every woman can use to spot a narcissist (no matter how charming or “nice”) - Powerful strategies to unmask manipulative partners… without putting yourself at risk - The reality of going “no contact” with family and why estrangement is sometimes about self-love, not punishment Chapter Titles Follow Dr. Ramani: Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/ Dr. Ramani Network: https://doctor-ramani.com/drn/ The Healing Program: https://doctor-ramani.com/the-healing-program/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Want to search through every episode, explore specific topics, or ask me questions directly? Check out my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section. That’s 100% a scammer.