A serial killer's ex-wife who says she would have known. A young mother sobbing in a jailhouse call while assuring her arrested husband that everyone still loves him. A matriarch who reportedly knew about abuse in her own home for over two decades and built a television empire on top of it. Three women. Three different worlds. One question nobody can comfortably answer. Rex Heuermann is charged with murdering seven women along Long Island's Gilgo Beach corridor and is reportedly expected to enter a guilty plea. Asa Ellerup, his ex-wife, shared nearly three decades with him. Prosecutors allege he kept checklists, timed crimes for when his family was away, and stored violent content on his devices. Their daughter Victoria has publicly said she believes her father most likely committed the killings. Asa has maintained she would have known. Joseph Duggar, 31, is charged in Florida with lewd and lascivious molestation of a child under twelve. He allegedly admitted to it twice and has pleaded not guilty. Kendra Duggar, 27, faces eight misdemeanor charges in Arkansas after investigators reportedly found locks on the outside of their children's bedroom doors. Their four children have been removed. Michelle Duggar reportedly knew about Josh abusing her daughters as early as 2002 — reportedly sent him to manual labor instead of treatment — and, according to former Arkansas state senator Jim Holt, whose daughter was being courted by Josh, allegedly planned not to disclose Josh's history until after the marriage. Psychotherapist Shavaun Scott joins me to examine the psychology of "not knowing" across both cases — how the mind builds walls, how systems suppress instincts, and why the question "how do you not see it" reveals more about us than it does about them. Join Our SubStack For AD-FREE ADVANCE EPISODES & EXTRAS!: https://hiddenkillers.substack.com/ Want to comment and watch this podcast as a video? Check out our YouTube Channel. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8-vxmbhTxxG10sO1izODJg?sub_confirmation=1 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Tik-Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@hiddenkillerspod X Twitter https://x.com/TrueCrimePod This publication contains commentary and opinion based on publicly available information. All individuals are presumed innocent until proven guilty in a court of law. Nothing published here should be taken as a statement of fact, health or legal advice. #RexHeuermann #GilgoBeach #DuggarFamily #KendraDuggar #MichelleDuggar #AsaEllerup #IBLP #SerialKillerPsychology #HiddenKillers #truecrimeaddict