Thank you to today’s sponsors: Cozy Earth: Get 35% Off with code LISA Link: https://bit.ly/CozyWOI Aura: Free 2 week trial Link: https://bit.ly/AuraWOI Get ready to talk about a topic that is often considered taboo and “off-limits” at parties (but realllllllly shouldn’t be)... MONEY. Guiding us down the path to frikin’ financial confidence & freedom is none other than the TikTok star “Your Rich BFF”, it’s my girl Vivian Tu! Vivian is an absolute badass entrepreneur and money mentor with FRESH, no-BS advice on how to create smart money habits and reach the financial freedom of your damn dreams!!!! She believes that anyone can GET RICH, but not by accident. So in this episode, we’re covering: - The power dynamics in relationships that are keeping women broke - Why EVERY COUPLE should have a prenup - The harsh realities of financial infidelity - How working towards EQUITY in a relationship is more important than EQUALITY - Why talking about money openly will actually SAVE your relationship - The importance of separating your VALUE from your job - Why it’s FINE to have a “rainy day fund”, but NOT as a secret - The money habits and misconceptions that are keeping you POOR - Why you should focus on being a HIGH-VALUE woman - How women can take a lesson from men on transparency and collaboration around compensation and pay - Why women have to STRIP to become RICH (and no, it doesn’t require a POLE!) The more comfortable we get talking about money, the more confident, capable, and ready we will be to reach our financial freedom! And be sure to get your copy of “Rich AF” here: https://www.yourrichbff.com/richaf Chapter Markers: 👰‍♀️ [00:00] Why EVERYONE Needs a Prenup 💰 [24:23] You’re NOT a Gold Digger ❌ [36:42] Avoiding the Comparison Trap 🥑 [49:57] The Cost-Benefit Analysis of Avocado Toast 💰 [1:00:07] When Women Work Together ✅ [1:14:41] Don’t Give Them a Reason to Doubt You 👉 [1:32:00] Bonus Episode: Natalie Ellis & Danille Canty ****Bonus Episode: Beat Imposter Syndrome & Feel Worthy with Natalie Ellis & Danille Canty**** Keep watching for a BONUS conversation with the AMAZING BossBabe Founders Natalie Ellis & Danille Canty! We’re talking about overcoming the fear of self-celebration, how to build confidence and prioritize your health while growing a business, and setting your goals higher to push beyond what you thought possible. 🔥 VIVIAN’S HOT QUOTES: "When you're with someone who isn't supportive of you, who isn't there for you, when you really need them, over time, you start to internalize it, and you build up that scar tissue, and you don't think you deserve it anymore. And things can get so bad that you start to think they're the norm, and you don't even realize what else is out there or what types of people are out there who would love you the way you are supposed to be loved and treat you the way you are supposed to be treated." "You don't want to be called a gold digger…And so women oftentimes very much downplay our need for financial security because we've been literally brainwashed into thinking that if we want financial security or we want stability in our lives, we want wealth. It makes us greedy, it makes us gold diggers, and it makes us shallow." "I mean, when I was at my media and tech job, I was the youngest person on the team and probably one of the least tenured. And I had a coworker that I was really close with, and I just turned to her one day, and I'm like, I'm about to go ask for more money. What do you make? And at first, she hesitated, and she's like, well, don't tell anyone I told you." "You have to be beyond reproach. You cannot give anyone a reason to think that you messed up a trade, that you fumbled a client's order, that you even messed up the lunch run. Do not give people a reason to doubt you ever." “Older women are spoken to as if they are invisible.” “And sometimes it does feel like if you are not a conventionally attractive woman, you don't get even the meager benefits that subset of women get.” Follow Vivian Tu: Website: https://www.yourrichbff.com/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@yourrichbff Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/your.richbff/ Order “Rich AF”: https://www.yourrichbff.com/richaf Follow Natalie: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamnatalie Follow Danielle Canty: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/daniellecanty/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement