In this powerful conversation with Jay Shetty, Mel Robbins shares her groundbreaking Let Them Theory - a mindset tool that helps you identify what's in your control and what's not, instantly freeing you from stress and anxiety. From navigating difficult relationships and healing from heartbreak (with her research-backed 11-week rule) to understanding why adult friendships change after 25, Mel reveals practical wisdom that will transform how you show up in life. Learn how to stop giving your power away to others' opinions and behavior while focusing on the three things you can always control: your thoughts, your actions, and how you process your emotions. Join over 750,000 people to receive my most transformative wisdom directly in your inbox every single week with my free Monk Mode newsletter. Subscribe here: https://news.jayshetty.me/subscribe In this interview, we discuss: Episode Resources: https://www.melrobbins.com/ https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/ https://www.youtube.com/c/melrobbins https://www.tiktok.com/@melrobbins https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mel-robbins-podcast/id1646101002 https://www.amazon.com/Let-Them-Theory-Life-Changing-Millions/dp/B0DFMZMKFJ/?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_w=Rp7as&content-id=amzn1.sym.bc3ba8d1-5076-4ab7-9ba8-a5c6211e002d&pf_rd_p=bc3ba8d1-5076-4ab7-9ba8-a5c6211e002d&pf_rd_r=132-8121315-7594942&pd_rd_wg=OVMET&pd_rd_r=8ae51e79-e6c5-4904-8848-02949c09243c&ref_=aufs_ap_sc_dsk https://www.instagram.com/jayshetty https://www.facebook.com/jayshetty/ https://x.com/jayshetty https://www.linkedin.com/in/shettyjay/ https://www.youtube.com/@JayShettyPodcast http://jayshetty.me

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