Order your copy of The Let Them Theory 👉 https://melrob.co/let-them-theory 👈 The #1 Best Selling Book of 2025 🔥 Discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words. Let Them. — Is it possible to be around narcissistic people and not lose your power? Especially when it's your mom, dad, ex, or boss who’s acting toxic? Today, Mel is joined by Rebecca Zung, an expert on narcissism and a globally recognized high-conflict negotiator. Rebecca is also a top-ranked trial lawyer who has studied narcissism so that she could win against them in the courtroom. She’s written the playbook, SLAY the Bully: How to Negotiate with A Narcissist and Win. She is here to make the case that you CAN stay in power no matter how toxic the people are around you. And by following her 4-part plan, you can even win when dealing with narcissism. In this conversation, Rebecca discusses topics like: Narcissism: what is it? The 3 types of #narcissism The link between narcissism and divorce The exact phrases that can change the dynamic between you and a narcissist The top 3 sentences to disarm a narcissist without causing rage Why “cutting off” a narcissist won’t work The physical symptoms you can have when dealing with a narcissist Why being “the victim” is keeping you trapped What happens in a narcissistic brain in childhood that flips a switch The tie between trauma and narcissism What the 4 non-verbal triggers for any narcissist are Why a narcissist is just an 8-year-old throwing a tantrum The reason why a narcissist actually fears you The definition of love bombing and why it’s so addictive What the 3 phases of a narcissistic relationship are How you can be physiologically addicted to a ‘love bomber’ (it’s as addictive as cocaine) What your 3 options are in a relationship with a narcissist What those passive-aggressive or back-handed comments mean to a narcissist What triangulation is, and how to protect yourself The biggest myth about narcissists The real reason why narcissists string you along The 4-step process to getting your power back from a narcissist The $2M apology What to do when a narcissist is raging at you The 3 things to stop doing now in a narcissistic relationship How to respond to an accusatory email at work What you need to know about negotiating with a narcissist Why saying “I’m anticipating…” disarms any narcissist The first boundary you need to create with a narcissist What to look for as signs that you are dating, engaged to, or married to a narcissist Follow The Mel Robbins Podcast: The Mel Robbins Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themelrobbinspodcast/ I’m just your friend. I am not a licensed therapist, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Got it? Good. I’ll see you in the next episode. — Follow Mel: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/ TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@melrobbins Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melrobbins LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com​ — Sign up for Mel’s newsletter: https://melrob.co/sign-up-newsletter A note from Mel to you, twice a week, sharing simple, practical ways to build the life you want. — Subscribe to Mel’s channel here: https://www.youtube.com/melrobbins​?sub_confirmation=1 — Listen to The Mel Robbins Podcast 🎧 New episodes drop every Monday & Thursday! https://melrob.co/spotify https://melrob.co/applepodcasts https://melrob.co/amazonmusic — Looking for Mel’s books on Amazon? Find them here: The Let Them Theory: https://amzn.to/3IQ21Oe The Let Them Theory Audiobook: https://amzn.to/413SObp The High 5 Habit: https://amzn.to/3fMvfPQ The 5 Second Rule: https://amzn.to/4l54fah