I have been wanting to do this episode for a long time. This one is personal. I have spent most of my life grinding, building, and pushing myself to the limit. And somewhere along the way I stopped giving myself permission to actually live. My body was there for birthdays, vacations, and bedtimes. My mind was not. This episode is my attempt to fix that. For me and for you. Dr. Guy Winch is one of the world's leading psychologists. His TED talks have over 40 million views. His book, Mind Over Grind, is one of the most important books I have read in years. He is not here to tell you to slow down and smell the roses. He is here to show you that the way you are working right now is quietly costing you everything that actually matters. And he has the science to prove it. Here is what you will gain from this episode: - The #1 Deathbed Regret: Find out what people wish most at the end of their lives and why it is not what you think it is - Stop Ruminating: Learn the exact process for turning harmful work rumination into productive problem solving so your evenings belong to you again - Micro Breaks: Discover the research-backed practice that high performers use to actually perform better by working smarter throughout the day - The Transition Ritual: Get a practical step-by-step system for training your brain to clock out from work so you can be truly present at home - Challenge vs. Threat Mindset: Understand the single mental shift that separates people who perform under pressure from people who crumble under it Stop kicking the can. The life you keep saying you will enjoy later is happening right now. 0:00 - Introduction: The Five Regrets of the Dying 2:35 - The Madison Scene: Waiting Too Long to Live 4:40 - Why We Keep Pushing Off Life 7:58 - Dealing with Intrusive Thoughts After Work 10:39 - Rumination: The Emotional Hamster Wheel 16:55 - Loving Your Work Doesn't Justify Addiction 18:35 - Threat vs. Challenge Mindset 22:17 - The Power of Micro-Breaks 27:47 - How to Actually Decompress on Vacation 33:14 - Signs You're Overworked & the Cost on Relationships 37:31 - What Self-Care Really Means for High Achievers 42:52 - When to Leave a Job & Breaking the Comparison Trap 58:18 - Daily Ritual to Transition from Work to Home Life Sign up for a $1 per month trial period at https://shopify.com/mylett Head to https://dosedaily.co/ and enter MYLETT to get 35% off your first subscription. Start improving your health with real data from Tiny Health. Use promo code MYLETT to get $50 off your first at-home test kit at https://tinyhealth.com/ 👇 SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL - so this show can reach more people 👇 https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIprGZAdzn3ZqgLmDuibYcw?sub_confirmation=1 Click the Link Below to Subscribe to my email list to MAXOUT your life (all value, no fluff) https://konect.to/edmylett Thank you for watching this video—Please Share it and get the word out! ▶︎ Visit My WEBSITE | https://www.EdMylett.com #EdMylett #Motivation