Order your copy of The Let Them Theory 👉 https://melrob.co/let-them-theory 👈 The #1 Best Selling Book of 2025 🔥 Discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words. Let Them. — In this episode, you will learn the requirements of a good relationship – and the signs your relationship may not go the distance. If you’re wondering if someone is “the one” and you’re not sure if you should end things, you’ll get the answer today. And if you’re struggling through a rough patch in your relationship and want tools and tips on how to make it better, Mel is sharing that as well. Today, you’re getting the skills you need for any healthy romantic relationship. Whether you’re in the early stages of dating, committed for years, or simply curious about your compatibility, this episode will give you the tools to navigate love with confidence. For more resources related to today’s episode, click here for the podcast episode page: https://www.melrobbins.com/podcasts/episode-239 Follow The Mel Robbins Podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themelrobbinspodcast I’m just your friend. I am not a licensed therapist, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Got it? Good. I’ll see you in the next episode. In this episode: 0:00 Introduction 6:56 This hard truth you need to face sooner than later 10:53 What compatibility really means—and how to find it—might surprise you 14:42 The 3 relationship mistakes you can turn into opportunities for growth. 20:45 Tried the big talk? Use this groundbreaking technique to move forward with ease 32:15 Ask this 5 times to uncover the heart of any relationship issue 36:35 Unlock the secret to inspiring change with behavioral psychology 45:00 This surprising stat will redefine what really matters in relationships 49:57 Is it just a difference of opinion or a dealbreaker? Know the signs 56:20 It’s decision time: ask these honest questions to move forward with confidence 58:33 The right choices often feel wrong—trust your gut 1:06:05 Is the fear of change keeping you from seeing the truth about your relationship? — Follow Mel: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/ TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@melrobbins Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melrobbins LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com​ — Sign up for Mel’s newsletter: https://melrob.co/sign-up-newsletter A note from Mel to you, twice a week, sharing simple, practical ways to build the life you want. — Subscribe to Mel’s channel here: https://www.youtube.com/melrobbins​?sub_confirmation=1 — Listen to The Mel Robbins Podcast 🎧 New episodes drop every Monday & Thursday! https://melrob.co/spotify https://melrob.co/applepodcasts https://melrob.co/amazonmusic — Looking for Mel’s books on Amazon? Find them here: The Let Them Theory: https://amzn.to/3IQ21Oe The Let Them Theory Audiobook: https://amzn.to/413SObp The High 5 Habit: https://amzn.to/3fMvfPQ The 5 Second Rule: https://amzn.to/4l54fah