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Dating Advice
Episodes · 12 months
12
Nov 2025–Oct 2026peak share, Nov 2025
Share of analysed episodes per month, Nov 2025 to Oct 2026: 6 of 3,584, 3 of 3,862, 0 of 4,115, 1 of 4,226, 1 of 4,731, 1 of 4,438, 0 of 4,230, 0 of 4,319, 0 of 4,515, 0 of 4,419, 0 of 4,624, 0 of 4,594.
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38
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29
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Where they standLast discussed
7mo ago
Apr 9, 2026
Where they stand
Camps of opinion · 2Positions people took on this topic in transcripts, grouped by school of thought. The bar shows each camp's share of the people sorted into a camp. It is not a poll and not a share of any audience, and people whose position fit no camp are left out of it. Within a camp, people with demonstrated expertise on the topic come first, then those who reached the most listeners on it. Positions are extracted from transcripts by a model and may misattribute who said what. Every quote links to the episode it came from.
Share of people placed in a camp10 people
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- Value authenticity and direct…7 people · 70%
- Prioritize natural, slow development3 people · 30%
Value authenticity and direct…
Healthy dating relies on being one's true self, communicating intentions clearly, and walking away when alignment or respect is missing.
7 people · 7 episodes
Dating is inherently confusing, and clarity comes from having direct conversations about intentions early on rather than guessing or projecting.
“I don't know this whole like if they like you, you know, if not, you'll be confused. It's like dating is really [ __ ] confusing. I don't know when it's ever just been a clear-cut direction.”
Sabrina Zohar · Oct 2025 · 2 episodes · 26K views on this topicSS
If a partner is unwilling to communicate, address issues, or lacks alignment on life goals, they are wasting one's time.
“I will say that in general if this person isn't willing to talk about things they're wasting your time if they're not willing to address or correct things that have been talked about they're wasting your time if you guys aren't on the same page about what you want and where you want to go”
Jay Shetty Podcast · Feb 2025 · 1 episode · 1.8M views on this topic
Jay Shetty warns that people often act in ways contrary to their true selves just to be liked by a potential partner.
“It all comes down to the fact that we want people to like us so bad that we're willing to act unlike ourselves in order for them to like us.”
Jay Shetty Podcast · Apr 2024 · 9 episodes · 14.1M views on this topicPrioritize natural, slow development
Lasting relationships require patience, boundaries, and organic growth rather than rushing or force-fitting an immediate connection.
3 people · 2 episodes
Individuals should exercise restraint and avoid investing in long-distance connections that lack clear future prospects or compatibility.
“If I was being honest with myself then what I would have said is this person's lovely. No, this is no what I'm saying is no commentary on this human being. This person's lovely. They have so much to offer. But in what is it that is drawing me to this situation in this person right now?”
Matthew Hussey · Dec 2025 · 9 episodes · 8.8M views on this topic
A healthy dating pace involves setting boundaries, maintaining your own life, and avoiding over-exposure to a new partner too early in the relationship.
“If the person is trying to spend out of a 7-day week, five and six days with you, keep it to two. You just met them. It's okay to want to spend time with someone, but create a nice distance for yourself.”
Relationship Restored · Nov 2025 · 0 episodes · 0 views on this topicAS
Building a sustainable relationship requires taking the time to let things develop naturally rather than rushing, as relationships built too quickly lack the necessary foundation to endure.
“And that's what love bombing is. It's right. It gets you excited. It's like, "Oh, they're willing to buy this house and this early like it's it's a b buyer. They're qualified." And it's like, no, >> the person who's like, "I rather take my time and slow this down.”
Relationship Restored · Nov 2025 · 1 episode · 2K views on this topicExtracted by a model; may misattribute who said what.
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Episodes discussing this topicIncludes episodes tagged with a narrower subject. Each is marked with the subject it came in through.
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Over time
Share of episodesThis topic's episodes as a share of every episode we analysed, in each complete month. We analyse more episodes every month, so a raw count would mostly show that growth. Recent months fill in as transcripts are analysed.
Complete months · first on record Jun 2020