Thank you to today’s sponsors: OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code LISA at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod Paleovalley: 15% off https://bit.ly/WOIPaleovalley Let me ask you—have you ever busted your ass trying to decode WHAT exactly men really want, only to wind up bumping into one heartbreak after another? Maybe you’ve found yourself on repeat, chasing the “red flags,” burning your energy on men that drain you, second-guessing if you’re enough, or wondering, “Yo, what’s wrong with ME?” Well STOP right there, because the problem is NOT you! We have been swimming, literally flailing around, in a sea of old-school advice, dusty stereotypes, and TikTok memes about “toxic masculinity” that are NOT getting us closer to love that lasts or worth that’s solid. So today, we are flipping the damn script! I am so pumped to be sitting down with my friend, pastor, powerhouse, and relationship coach Toure Roberts, who’s about to drop the truth bomb of the century—men, YES, even the “alpha” ones, are SO. MUCH. MORE. COMPLEX. Than we’ve been told. And in this episode, we are going waaaaay past the “just look for red flags” basics. Instead, we’re getting REAL about: - The secret needs men are DESPERATE for but terrified to admit (say what? YES, men are needy too!) - Why “green flags” are MORE important than red—how to spot a high-value man BEFORE you give your heart away - How men are just as vulnerable (and insecure!) as women, even when they act tough as nails - Why your affirmation—done right—can literally transform a man’s soul - The messed-up dad advice and toxic programming that keeps men shut down and locked up (and how you can actually help heal it!) - And SOOO much more, homie!! If you have ever found yourself questioning whether there are any good men left, or doubting if you’ll ever get the partnership you actually deserve, this first half is the jolt you NEED. By the end, you’ll start seeing men—and YOURSELF—completely differently. Let’s rip off the band-aid, challenge the old narratives, and learn what love is actually supposed to feel like with someone on your level! CHAPTER MARKERS [00:00] Spotting Green Flags in Relationships [15:39] Seeking Affirmation and Validation [29:44] "Supporting Vulnerability in Relationships" [52:57] "Focus on Genuine Connection, Not Imitation" [01:10:38] Overcoming Temptation Builds Self-Worth [01:44:54] Exploring Sexual Wholeness Together Follow Toure Roberts: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toureroberts/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ToureRoberts Website: https://www.toureroberts.com Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!