Have you ever trusted someone who seemed absolutely perfect, only to discover—sometimes way too late—that it was all just a mask? If the thought of missing the warning signs makes you queasy, you are NOT alone, girlfriend. So many women find themselves lured in by charm, only to end up doubting their own judgment or, worse, their own reality. But here’s the jaw-dropping truth: “Evil is unspectacular and always human. It shares our bed and eats at our tables.” That W.H. Auden line hits so hard because it’s REAL. And TODAY, we are getting to the bottom of exactly how to spot those masks (before your heart is on the line). On this episode of Women of Impact, we’re diving into the minds of manipulative and dangerous people with forensic psychotherapist Dr. Gwen Adshead (trust me, this woman is LEGENDARY in her field!). Whether you’re navigating relationships, rebuilding after a toxic partnership, or want to build a bulletproof tool-belt of self-protection, this one is UNMISSABLE. Here’s what we dig into: - The “bicycle lock” of risk factors to watch for when meeting someone new! - Why “normal” can be the biggest red flag of all (and how you can spot those shallow connections beneath the surface) - The 11 HUGE red flags that reveal who’s really hiding behind the mask (think: manipulation, rule-breaking, and emotional shallowness—oh my!) - How “overly charming” might be a sign you’re dealing with a predator, not a prince - Powerful insights into attachment theory and why building YOUR secure attachment is the best armor you’ll ever have The TRUTH about why so much domestic violence starts during pregnancy—and what you must know to protect yourself Plus: Dr. Gwen breaks down EXACTLY how to keep your power and emotional cool (even in the presence of a narcissist or psychopath), including: - Staying emotionally sober and not being drawn into their drama - Why authenticity and reflection are your best defenses - How to spot fake remorse and false victimhood in real time By the end of this episode, you’ll have a power-packed tool belt to help you spot manipulators, trust your gut, build those unshakeable boundaries, and stay the absolute HEROINE of your own story—no matter who you’re dealing with. So homie – this is your wake-up call: Your intuition is powerful, your boundaries are sacred, and NO ONE gets to take your voice or your power away ever again! Chapter Titles: Get Dr. Gwen’s book, The Devil You Know: https://a.co/d/0D9goYM Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!