This episode was sponsored by: Magic Spoon: https://sponsr.is/magicspoon_lisabilyeu and use the promo code LISABILYEU to get $5 off any order Joi Wellness. https://bit.ly/woijoi to get your levels checked. If you use my code Impact they are giving you a 10% discount to get started. What’s up, my homies!! It’s Lisa Bilyeu and this episode of Women of Impact is ABSOLUTELY FRIKIN’ FIREEEEEE!!! Today I’m joined by my boy Trent Shelton, a former NFL football player who became a motivational speaker after struggling with fear and anxiety and thinking he had nothing to live for. Through picking himself back up, he actually ended up finding his true calling – helping people become their best self! Trent is here to help me dig into this BIG question: Why do SOOOO many women settle in a relationship, even though we KNOW our needs, wants, and desires aren’t being met?! Women are actually CHOOSING to suffer instead of leaving, and it’s GOT TO STOP homies!!! That’s why I’m picking Trent’s brain, digging into topics like: - WHY you settle, even though you KNOW you deserve more - HOW to get out of the relationship when you feel stuck - The beliefs that are HOLDING YOU BACK & how to change them - The 2 things to look for that inspire influence and trust - How to flip the script on boundaries so you actually protect your life and soul - HOW to go about setting a new boundary for the first time - The importance of letting go of the guilt you feel for what happens to your ex - Habits you can do to build your self-worth back up and move on - And what to do so you DON’T get pulled back into the addictive relationship. It’s TIME homie!!!! It’s time to set your boundaries and say HELL FRIKIN’ YES to yourself so you finally start protecting your peace, and finding your power. Chapter Markers: 👩‍❤️‍👨 [00:00] Why Women Settle In Love 🔍 [19:28] Actions that Reveal True Character 🥰 [38:15] The Path to True Feelings & Intentions ❤️ [49:58] The Impact of Your Self-Respect 🕵️ [57:14] Seeking Truth & Setting Boundaries ☮️ [1:14:32] How to Protect Your Peace 👉 [1:39:15] Bonus Episode: Jordan Green ****Bonus Episode: with Jordan Green**** Keep watching for a BONUS conversation with therapist and coach Jordan Green. She’s sharing 4 signs you’re in an unhealthy relationship, including the single greatest predictor of divorce, and the antidotes to unhealthy communication! 💣 TRENT SHELTON’S MEGA-TRUTH BOMBS: “Settling leads to suffering.” “Sometimes it takes being perfectly lonely to realize what being perfectly loved feels like.” “Your history keeps your misery.” “You will never be enough for a person that is not enough for you.” “We protect our phones and homes more than our hearts and souls.” “One of the worst ways to live life is allowing someone or something that’s no longer in your life…” “Marching at the beat of my own drum and loving the sound” “Love is the strongest addiction - you are chemically bonded to that person, and every time you go back and it starts all over again.” “Boundaries are bridges.” “Sometimes you have to lose yourself to find your best life…” Follow Trent Shelton: Website: https://www.trentshelton.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LikeTrentShelton/ Order “Protect Your Peace”: www.trentshelton.com/book Follow Jordan Green: Website: https://jordanandrea.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jordangreencoaching/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.love.therapist Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement