Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Tim Arrigo, a men's relationship coach in Southern California. Beyond Driven website: https://www.beyond-driven.com Beyond Driven on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beyond__driven Beyond Driven on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beyonddriven2021/ Beyond Driven on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@beyond.driven 0:00 Understanding, Forgiveness and Personal Transformation 0:54 From Heroin Addiction and Homelessness to Licensed Counselor 3:50 Why So Many Men Feel They’re Not Enough 6:13 How Childhood Trauma Shapes Success, Addiction and Relationships 8:21 What Healthy Families Do Differently 11:24 Taking Responsibility Instead of Blaming Your Partner 14:26 The Importance of Male Role Models for Boys 16:41 The Biggest Mistakes Men Make in Marriage 20:37 How AI and Technology Are Affecting Relationships 23:05 Self-Awareness, Emotional Intelligence and Understanding Your Partner 28:33 Can Trust Be Rebuilt After Betrayal? 33:55 What Men Misunderstand About Women 37:28 How Love and Marriage Change Over Time 41:07 The Benefits and Limitations of Therapy 43:20 Why We Keep Choosing the Wrong Partners 47:09 The First Steps to Rebuilding a Marriage 50:24 Social Media, Masculinity and the Masks Men Wear 52:28 Hope, Faith and the Power to Change 56:01 The Most Important Qualities in a Healthy Partner 58:15 The Patterns Behind Human Behavior For full-length, ad-free and uncensored videos please subscribe to the Soft White Underbelly subscription channel at softwhiteunderbelly.com. It's $10 a month and watchable on Apple and Android mobile apps, Roku TV, Apple TV and Amazon Fire. Here's how to purchase the Soft White Underbelly books and merch: https://softwhiteunderbelly.org #swu #softwhiteunderbelly #documentary #marklaita #relationshipcoach #mentalhealth #socal #california #humanbehavior