This Hot Topic episode has been one of THE! MOST! hotly requested conversations to date! Ask and you shall receive, Shandies, because today we are joined by therapist and professor Dr. Kirk Honda, aka @PsychologyInSeattle, famed for his reaction videos and analyses of reality TV relationship dynamics. Today Dr. Honda has answers to our personal musings about the psychological aspects of falling in love on TV. We also cover the manipulation, the aftermath, the audience, and last but not least, the ethics. Sharleen shares several experiences from her Bachelor days and Dr. Honda helps break them down. Frankly, this topic is overdue and probably one of the most quintessential "Shandy" conversations to date. Come and listen to why we called this the elusive and final collector's card of Dear Shandy Hot Topic episodes! Thanks to our sponsors! - Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY40 and use code SHANDY40 to get 40% off your first box! - Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://www.TakeCareOf.com and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off your first Care/Of order! More Dr Honda: - Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@PsychologyInSeattle - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychologyinseattle - Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/psychology-in-seattle-podcast/id767626637 - Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion #drhonda #realitytv #psychology #psychologistreacts #loveisblindseason4 #loveisblind #loveisblindnetflix #lib #loveisblindrecap #dearshandy #dearshandyrecap #shandyrecaps #drkirkhonda #relationshipadvice #realitytvstars #datingshow #psychologyofdating