He argues that Mandy and Kris should not feel guilty for the deck collapse because their intent was positive and they lacked control over the accident.

“If you are guilty of something or if you are to blame for something that implies intent. Y'all did not do that and the only intent you had was that was to share this wonderful moment in your life with the people that love you and that you love, right?”

He believes his wife is overreacting by continuing to dwell on the issues that occurred at their wedding four years ago.

“Is she overreacting 4 years later? Absolutely. It's time to move on.”

She believes she and her husband are partially responsible for the injuries their guests sustained during the wedding deck collapse.

“And it's even though it wasn't our fault that the deck collapsed, it was still our wedding. And had it not been for our wedding, nobody would have been there. So it's just it's hard for us because we feel like we're partly to blame.”

Lily Padman acknowledges that wedding disasters are common and produce memorable stories.

“No one would want to hear about your wedding at a dinner party otherwise.”

He believes that his wife should move past the negative experiences of their wedding day because they have been happily married for nine years.

“It was one day. It was our wedding day. And you know, we have the rest of our lives. We're we're happily married after 9 years.”